Talking With Teens About Loving God and Yourself (In High School and Beyond…)

 

Guest post by Annie F. Downs, author of Perfectly Unique: Praising God From Head to Foot, which is available now. This is the first post in a three-part series about Perfectly Unique, the Girls of Grace Tour, and equipping teen girls with the tools they need to find their security in Christ:

 

I wrote Perfectly Unique for about fifteen high school girls from my church. They showed up at my house every Monday night—we would eat cookies and drink coffee and they would read these pages, straight from my printer, and we would talk.

And today, while those fifteen girls are out of high school and this book rests in many more hands (and is no longer printed at my house), that’s still what Perfectly Unique is. It is a conversation, between the reader and I, you and me, about what it is like to love God, serve Him, all the while also learning how to better love yourself.

I was never very good at that, the whole “love yourself” thing. In fact, I pretty much hated myself all through high school and some of college. But that’s not all that this book is about—yes, I do talk about my struggles with self-worth and how God rescued me from those lies, but bigger than that, this book is about a God who saves and how we can live in such a way that brings glory to Him.

I love Perfectly Unique. I love the title—it fits me so well. It’s exactly what I wish someone would have called me when I was a teenager. That’s what I wanted to be—unique, and good at it. And while I’m not sure I ever achieved that, I certainly see God doing that in other teens now, as they read the book, and that means more to me than anything.

My inbox beeps a few times a day, little notes typed out from teenagers who are quietly wrestling with who they are in Christ and what they are doing on this planet. They tell me that the book has changed their life. I shake my head, it is hard to believe. Sometimes God lets us be a part of someone else’s rescue and I am certainly unworthy.

(I know. You think everyone says that. But seriously. I mean it.)

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This book is just me telling some stories from my heart about my life and trying to help teenage girls maneuver through these years with as much grace and ease and Jesus as possible.

But the emails come. And the Facebook messages from moms of how they see a change in their daughter. And the tweets from girls in the UK unloading their dishwasher because it is a way to glorify God with her hands.

And I stop, my fingers hovered over the keyboard, and give thanks to God for letting my story, my rescue, make a way for other girls to be rescued from the lies of the enemy and rescued to a place of abundant life.

I think of Joel 2:25 – “I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten.” And I think of teenage Annie, and all the ways that the swarm of lies ate away at her life like a plague of locusts. And then I think of God, and the girls who are hearing truth for the first time in Perfectly Unique. And it all seems worth it.

- Annie F. Downs

 

Want to meet Annie on the Girls of Grace Tour? Enter our Girls of Grace giveaway for a chance to win VIP tickets* to the upcoming event at Grace Church in Eden Prairie, MN on September 22! Click here to enter: http://bit.ly/PgjRVu

Giveaway ends September 18 at 11:59PM EST

 

About Annie F. Downs

Find Annie F. Downs on Facebook Annie F. Downs (Facebook.com/AnnieBlogs) is an author and speaker who loves living in Nashville, Tennessee. Flawed but funny, she uses her writing to highlight the everyday goodness of a real and present God. Annie is currently speaking nationally on the Girls of Grace Tour, a can’t-miss event for teen girls, equipping them with the tools they need to find their security in Christ!

To learn more about Annie, visit: AnnieDowns.com
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Why Heaven is Both “Here” and “Not Yet”

Pop quiz: Will Jesus-followers become citizens in the kingdom of heaven someday? Or are they already citizens of the kingdom? Discover what Scripture says on the matter in this devotional from The Great Rescue Bible (NIV).

‘Round the bend

Heaven is both here and not yet.

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While we’re on this fallen earth, Jesus is with us and within us (see Matthew 28:20; Colossians 1:27). But it also works the other way. We’re also “in him” and seated “with him” while he’s in heaven (see Romans 8:1; Ephesians 2:6).

Somehow we’re seated in heaven with Jesus. By knowing him, he serves as a portal to show us things of heaven. That means that as we walk with Jesus in this world, we’ll experience foretastes of what heaven will be like. When we come to him anxious and ask him to help, maybe that’s why we leave more peaceful.

Mysteriously, this next Scripture passage was written to believers still alive on fallen earth — and it’s not written in future tense, so it seems that it’s describing what is happening now: “You have come to Mount Zion, to the city of the living God, the heavenly Jerusalem. You have come to thousands upon thousands of angels in joyful assembly, to the church of the firstborn, whose names are written in heaven. You have come to God, the Judge of all, to the spirits of the righteous made perfect” (Hebrews 12:22–23).

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We’re already citizens of the kingdom of heaven, and we can learn to celebrate what heaven’s residents celebrate. In heaven, angels and people rejoice in God and in the things of his kingdom. They rejoice when people turn away from the ways of evil, when goodness is spread and when Jesus-followers make the world look more like his kingdom.

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Is the Gospel News, or a New Way of Life?

Is “the gospel” just shorthand for the daily life of a Christian? If not, how does the gospel shape our daily Christian life? Tim Keller offers biblical insights in this excerpt from his new book Center Church: Doing Balanced, Gospel-Centered Ministry in Your City. If you like what you read here, get the book 38% off: Buy Center Church (Special offer good through Sept. 18, 2012). -Adam Forrest

Faith vs. Works?

The gospel is not about something we do but about what has been done for us, and yet the gospel results in a whole new way of life…

One of Martin Luther’s dicta was that we are saved by faith alone but not by a faith that remains alone. His point is that true gospel belief will always and necessarily lead to good works, but salvation in no way comes through or because of good works. Faith and works must never be confused for one another, nor may they be separated (Eph 2:8–10; Jas 2:14, 17–18, 20, 22, 24, 26).

I am convinced that belief in the gospel leads us to care for the poor and participate actively in our culture, as surely as Luther said true faith leads to good works…

What is the gospel and what does it do?

I have often heard people preach this way: “The good news is that God is healing and will heal the world of all its hurts; therefore, the work of the gospel is to work for justice and peace in the world.”

The danger in this line of thought is not that the particulars are untrue (they are not) but that it mistakes effects for causes. It confuses what the gospel is with what the gospel does.

When Paul speaks of the renewed material creation, he states that the new heavens and new earth are guaranteed to us because on the cross Jesus restored our relationship with God as his true sons and daughters. Romans 8:1–25 teaches, remarkably, that the redemption of our bodies and of the entire physical world occurs when we receive “our adoption.” As his children, we are guaranteed our future inheritance (Eph 1:13–14, 18; Col 1:12; 3:24; Heb 9:15; 1 Pet 1:4), and because of that inheritance, the world is renewed. The future is ours because of Christ’s work finished in the past.

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Kiss Fear Goodbye (Here’s Why)

Pop quiz: Does God want us to “play it safe” in our lives? Does He want us to avoid all risk in our jobs, goals and desires?

Remember your answer as you read this devotional from The Great Rescue Bible (NIV). You may change your mind. -Adam Forrest

Does God Want You to “Play It Safe”?

Your Dad is the King of all. There is no reason to fear.

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Jesus told a story of two people who illustrated what it looks like to live as a child of the King: “It will be like a man going on a journey, who called his servants and entrusted his wealth to them. To one he gave five bags of gold, to another two bags, and to another one bag, each according to his ability. Then he went on his journey. The man who had received five bags of gold went at once and put his money to work and gained five bags more. So also, the one with two bags of gold gained two more. But the man who had received one bag went off, dug a hole in the ground and hid his master’s money” (Matthew 25:14–18).

In this parable, two of the three servants went for it, trying to gain as much as they could with what they had been given. They could have lost everything by not playing it safe. But they knew the heart of their master and decided to take a risk. Jesus made it clear that they were the ones who were living the way he wanted.

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God is not a “play it safe” God. Do you have the kind of approach to life that says, “I’m gonna go for it, even if I fail, because God’s gonna catch me if I fall”? Child of the King, if God puts something on your heart, go after it. Do what you can to make it happen, ask for his help and guidance, and trust that he’s going to walk with you every step of the way.

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Authors on the floor at ICRS

If you are a publishing professional attending ICRS convention right now, you are probably wondering what to do with all your free time, right?

Well, just in case, we thought we’d draw your attention to a few of our stellar authors who are present and available on the ICRS show floor for book signings and presentations. Most of these events are happening at the Zondervan booth (which is booth #223). Be sure to make your way over to say hi, greet an author, and get your book signed!

Christine Caine

Daring to do what God calls you to do
Already today Christine Caine has signed her testament of transformational insight and witness to God’s power to rescue, Undaunted: Daring to do what God calls you to do.

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Announcing the Beginner’s Bible Storybook App for iPad (Watch the Video)

We’re excited to announce that the best-selling children’s Bible of all time, The Beginner’s Bible, is coming soon for iPad as a storybook app!

The Beginner’s Bible App will be free for all to download. It will include 6 Bible stories, coloring pages and a game.

Get your first look at the app when you watch the video, then sign up to be notified as soon as it’s available!

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We are so excited about the app’s upcoming release!

A child’s first Bible is so important. It can set a child on a course of lifelong Bible exploration. The Beginner’s Bible is the first print Bible that many children receive in their life – and for good reason. The book is a vibrant, engaging introduction to the characters and stories in God’s Word.
We set out to create an app that captures the appeal of the book. From the app you can expect:

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How to Pursue Life after Loss [Excerpt]

The ever-honest Jerry Sittser reflects on the pain of losing a loved one, and how we can free ourselves from destructive feelings such as regret, hatred, bitterness, and despair. If you feel crushed under the weight of regret, I hope Jerry’s gentle but honest wisdom is a blessing to you. [Excerpt from A Grace Disguised: How the Soul Grows through Loss (eBook).] -Adam Forrest, Zondervan

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If I want transformation, I must let go of my regrets over what could have been and pursue what can be. But what I cannot have is the best of both worlds: the growth that has transformed my life as a result of the tragedy and the people whose death engendered that growth.

There is a bitter irony here that cannot be avoided, however much we grow through loss. The people whose death enabled me to change for the better are the very people with whom I would most like to share these changes. Their death has forced me to grow; I wish now that they could benefit from the growth that has resulted from their death.

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Unity: The Christian’s Calling Card [Excerpt]

Potent stuff today from author/pastor Mark Buchanan: Why “oneness” is superior to “equality;” the benefits of pursuing church unity; and what’s at stake if we don’t. Excerpt from Mark Buchanan’s book Your Church Is Too Safe: Why Following Christ Turns the World Upside-Down.

A brief open letter to Mark: “Dear Pastor Buchanan, your writing on unity convicts my introverted soul. For your next book, please write “Your Life Is Too Safe: The Introvert’s Field Guide to Joining Community.”  -Adam Forrest, Zondervan

Equality vs. oneness

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The Bible is little interested in equality. It aims much higher than that. From Genesis to Revelation, it calls us to this deeper, greater, tougher, sweeter thing: oneness. Oneness in our relationship with God. Oneness in our relationship with our spouse. Oneness with our relationships with other Christ-followers. Oneness in the church.

Oneness beats equality every time, because equality demands sameness. To be equal to you, I have to be as smart and strong and kind and generous as you. But oneness presumes difference. To be one with you, I have to accept your gift of otherness. I can be weak where you’re strong, and vice versa. Oneness requires my life to complement yours. It calls us to complete one another.

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A Heavenly Party [Excerpt]

Joni Eareckson Tada’s vision of heaven vibrates with joy, and C.S. Lewis asks what we really want, in this devotion from the NIV Voices of Faith Devotional Bible: Voices from the Past and Present.  

My favorite part about Joni’s view is seeing the saints come together from across time: “There’s Moses toasting Martin Luther.” What Christians from history would you most like to meet, and what would you ask them?

-Adam Forrest, Zondervan

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Before we realize it … we shall find ourselves in the embrace of our Savior at the Wedding Supper of the Lamb. Heaven will have arrived. The Lord’s overcoming of the world will be a lifting of the curtain of our five senses…

Now, enjoy an unseen divine reality. Rev up your heart and picture yourself taking a seat at the Wedding Supper. As you pull up a chair to the banquet table, take a look at what’s on the menu from Isaiah 25:6: “On this mountain the Lord Almighty will prepare a feast of rich food for all peoples, a banquet of aged wine — the best of meats and the finest of wines” …

I get a charge just thinking about it! I wonder who will sit next to me, or across from me. I glance down the table and there’s my friend, Verna Estes, mother of seven, swapping baby stories with Susanna Wesley, mother of seventeen. There’s Moses toasting Martin Luther. St. Augustine giving a bear hug to that jungle missionary …

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Seek and Ye Shall be Surprised [Excerpt]

Yesterday Mark Batterson shared his experience with trying to Force a Miracle. Here’s the story’s unexpected conclusion — a real-life example of “seek and ye shall find,” and how the finding will often surprise … ye!

I love how this story hints that God is directing the scene, but Mark and his unnamed friends have their roles to play. That is exciting, because it’s true in our stories too!

This story is from Mark Batterson’s book The Circle Maker: Praying Circles Around Your Biggest Dreams and Greatest Fears.

-Adam Forrest, Zondervan

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